Sending Out a Thank-you
I know someone who it seems, is in the process of dying. How long will it be? That's anyone's guess. Everyone seems to have accepted it, and yet, none of us are prepared for the change it will bring to our family. It is a family that is continuing to get smaller in numbers. There was a time when it was growing. Our elderly were healthy and babies were being born. It was wonderful, and we all felt good about living. Now, there have been no births for 10 years and in that time we have lost several people. I also know someone who to her core, is a caregiver. A nurturer through and through and to a fault. Do we let her take it all on herself, this entire process of holding the hand of our loved one as he prepares to leave? She would let us. And it would be easy to take advantage of that because we all have busy, middle age lives. In a perfect world, she would be spending her late years gradually slowing down and enjoying ...